Wednesday 2 July 2014

Can we get beyond blaming, shaming & punishing Paedophiles and Sex Offenders

I wrote the following in a response to a comment in about an article in The Time newspaper.

I cannot find a way to link to that comment hence I am reproducing it here.

My response is to a comment by http://www.thetimes.co.uk/tto/news/uk/crime/article4134892.ece?hubRefSrc=email#lf_comment=183332645

Can you move on from, understandably demonising Harris for repeatedly acting out lusts, perhaps an addiction in ways he could not contain, perhaps - I stress perhaps - I do not know - in ways that others cannot contain urges or addictions, to drink, smoke, gamble, etc..

Addiction, urges are not always not towards ingesting a chemical.

I once worked with a sex offender who having been in custody, for 30 years, was in his seventies, still had the the testosterone level of a teenager and when tested with a few hours parole, was found to be approaching a teenage boy of the age he had offended against 30 years earlier.

Why it might be a good shock, I suggest is because if we do not continue to direct our anger etc. towards individual perpetrators, we may come to accept that society is a long way from understanding and managing the sexual urges of many within our society. Some of  those with the propensity to be sex offenders also can, in other fields be productive individuals, worthy of praise for their other abilities and how they use them for the benefit of society as well as themselves and their families. Once we understand that ordinary people can be sex offenders, maybe as well as protecting our children and vulnerable people from them, we can eventually discover how to help them from a young age manage themselves so as not to spread harm and danger.

Maybe the Times will invite some contributions from some who have experience of working with sex offenders, to help with our need for increased understanding?